The Talk
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How to stay curious about someone you already know
The longer you love someone, the more you think you know them. Their rhythms, their habits, the way they reach for you in the dark. You can predict the small...
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6 intimacy-building exercises to keep the spark alive
Every long-term relationship eventually moves past the rush of the beginning. The early spark… that thrilling mix of novelty and anticipation gives way to something quieter, more stable and often,...
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What we talk about when we talk about “chemistry”
We’ve all said it…there was chemistry. Or maybe, there just wasn’t. It’s the phrase we reach for when logic fails, when attraction feels too complex to name. But what do...
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The rise of the female gaze
For decades, cinema taught us what desire should look like and it almost always looked the same. A woman’s body framed in fragments, observed rather than felt. The camera lingered,...
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Why we romanticise emotional unavailability
We all know the story. The one who keeps you guessing. The late replies. The almosts. The people who say I’m not good at relationships and somehow become the very...
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The seduction of red lipstick
There are few objects in history as small yet as powerful as a tube of red lipstick. It’s one of the simplest beauty products - just pigment, wax and oil...
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9 songs that taught us about sex
Before we learned about sex through experience, we learned it through sound.Through lyrics we didn’t fully understand, videos that blurred the line between fantasy and reality, and melodies that made...
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Pillow Talk with Persia Notarberardino
We are delighted to introduce you to Persia Notarberardino (she/her) – a Sydney-based model and creative whose presence is as intentional as it is magnetic. A Scorpio at heart, Persia...
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Talking to your partner about trying a vibrating ring
Bringing something new into your sex life can feel exciting and a little intimidating. Even if you’re curious about vibrating rings, the thought of suggesting it to a partner might...
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What a vibrating ring actually does: a beginner’s guide
Vibrating rings are one of those toys you often hear about but might not fully understand until you’ve tried one. Simple in design yet surprisingly versatile, they’re created to enhance...
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Reclaiming intimacy after sexual assault
The numbers don’t lie: 1 in 5 women and 1 in 16 men in Australia have experienced a form of sexual violence. For queer people, the prevalence is even higher. ...
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Intimacy you might miss if you’re not looking
Following on from our previous blog on unexpected things that are actually intimate, this piece goes a step further. It’s about the kinds of closeness that rarely get acknowledged -...
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Unexpected things that are actually intimate
Intimacy isn’t always obvious. It doesn’t only happen in physical closeness or deep conversation. Often, it shows up in quiet gestures that don’t ask for attention. You notice them after...
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Finding purpose in pain: turning endometriosis into advocacy
Introducing In Touch - real stories, honest conversations and shared experiences from our community. Pleasure, connection, and sexuality are deeply personal. No two experiences are the same and there are endless stories...
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Fantasy and feminism
“Just because I fantasise / Doesn’t mean it’s wrong” - FKA twigs, Two Weeks Fantasies can feel like confessions. We tend to treat them as indulgent, embarrassing or somehow other...
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The psychology of eye contact during sex
Eye contact is often treated as a sign of closeness. We hold it when we want someone to feel seen. We look away when we feel shy or unsure. But...
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The role of scent in sexual memory
Some smells stay with us. A particular cologne. The scent of skin. Sweat on sheets. You might catch it again months or years later, and without meaning to, you’re right...
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A guide to pleasuring yourself, together
For many people, the idea of mutual masturbation might feel unfamiliar or even a little awkward. It’s not often talked about openly, yet it can be one of the most...
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A beginner’s guide to roleplay
Have you ever wondered what it would feel like to step into a different version of yourself - or see your partner in a whole new light? That’s the heart...
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Why aftercare should be part of all good sex
You’ve just had sex, but instead of feeling close, you feel a little distant. Emotional. Maybe even a little alone - even though your partner is lying right beside you....
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Life after The Kiss of Death: surviving a bilateral mastectomy in my 30s
Cancer is often seen as a monolithic experience - a singular battle with a clear beginning, middle, and end. But for those who live through it, the reality is much...
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The politics of moaning
When we think about sex, sound often feels like a given - moans, gasps, sighs of pleasure. But how, when and why we make noise during sex is shaped by...
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The meaning of a hickey
A hickey is more than just a bruise. It’s a mark that lingers - a visible trace of a private moment, left on the body for the world to see....
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How TV intimacy coordinators are changing what desire looks like on screen
We’ve always looked to screens to show us what desire should look like - the heat, the tension, the unspoken pull between two characters. These moments don’t just entertain us,...
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Why your libido changes over time
Desire isn’t linear. It fluctuates - quietens, intensifies, shifts - and often in response to what's going on in your life, your body and your relationships. And while it can...
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How to talk to your partner about introducing a vibrator
Talking about sex can be vulnerable - even in relationships where communication is strong and intimacy feels easy. There are some topics that still make people pause, and one of...
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The afterglow effect
There’s a reason sex can leave you feeling softer, closer, or more connected - not just in the moment, but hours or even days later. That feeling isn’t imagined and...
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Are you in love, or just in limerence?
You can’t stop thinking about them. Every message sends a rush through your body. Their absence feels like withdrawal. It’s intoxicating, consuming...even addictive. But is it love, or is it...
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Sex and sobriety: navigating intimacy as a recovering addict
Introducing In Touch - real stories, honest conversations and shared experiences from our community. Pleasure, connection, and sexuality are deeply personal. No two experiences are the same and there are endless stories...
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A guide to mirror play
Mirror play is an invitation to see yourself differently - to step into a space of self-discovery, sensuality, and confidence. It’s about cultivating intimacy with yourself, appreciating your body in...
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The fascinating history of the G-spot
We’ve all heard of the G-spot...that elusive, almost mythical part of the body said to hold the key to extraordinary pleasure. But behind the intrigue is a story that reflects...
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How to have safe sex online
The holiday season often brings people together, but it can also pull them apart - physically, at least. Between family obligations, Friendsmas gatherings, and work events, you might find yourself...
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What is cuffing season?
As the days get shorter and the air turns colder, the signs are unmistakable. Cosy couple shots flood social feeds, dating apps see a surge in swipes, and old flings...
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Navigating feelings for someone who isn’t your partner
Picture this: you’re in line for your morning coffee, and the barista’s smile lingers just a little longer than usual. Or maybe it’s the charming neighbour who always catches your...
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Creating space for meaningful connection
In our fast-paced, always-connected world, it’s easy to forget that true intimacy doesn’t just happen. It takes time, attention, and intention. Creating a space for meaningful connection isn’t about perfect...
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The psychology behind deep conversations: why they matter more than you think
When was the last time you had a conversation that felt more than just words? A conversation where you truly felt seen, heard, and understood? For many, moments of real...