The Talk
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Creating space for meaningful connection
In our fast-paced, always-connected world, it’s easy to forget that true intimacy doesn’t just happen. It takes time, attention, and intention. Creating a space for meaningful connection isn’t about perfect...
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The psychology behind deep conversations: why they matter more than you think
When was the last time you had a conversation that felt more than just words? A conversation where you truly felt seen, heard, and understood? For many, moments of real...
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The art of emotional availability in relationships: why it’s key to lasting connection
Emotional availability—the art of being open, really listening, and showing empathy—is the bedrock of any lasting relationship. It’s what builds trust, closeness, and true intimacy, making both partners feel safe...
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Navigating intimacy and connection during IVF
Undergoing IVF is a deeply personal and often challenging journey, one that can test the foundations of even the strongest relationships. The process demands a level of emotional, physical, and...
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Why do so many of us fear intimacy?
Emotional intimacy—the kind that lets you connect deeply with someone—is something most of us crave but find hard to embrace. It demands vulnerability, which can feel daunting. If you’ve ever...
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‘Right person, wrong time’: unpacking the complexities of love and timing
We’ve all heard the phrase “right person, wrong time.” Some of us have probably even used it. But what does it really mean? Is it just a romanticised excuse for...
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A guide to exploring multiple orgasms
For those intrigued by the idea of more than one climax, exploring multiple orgasms offers a journey of self-discovery, connection, and a deeper understanding of your body’s rhythms. While multiple...
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Beyond monogamy: exploring consensual non-exclusivity
What once may have been considered ‘alternative’ arrangements have been gaining fierce popularity in recent years; you might even say polyamory has gone mainstream. Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is a catch-all...
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When did Halloween get so sexy?
Halloween has evolved over the years from an eerie celebration into a night filled with costumes, candy, and personal expression. Amid the ghosts and goblins, one trend consistently resurfaces: the...
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Understanding what it means to be intersex
You might recognise the term ‘intersex’ from the ‘I’ in LGBTQIA+, but its true meaning is often misunderstood. Intersex people are born with physical sex characteristics—such as chromosomes, gonads, hormone...
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Four LGBTQIA+ icons to celebrate this LGBT history month
October brings the cosy feel of autumn—pumpkin spice, Halloween festivities, and, most importantly, LGBT History Month. This is a time to honour LGBTQIA+ icons whose courage, creativity, and resilience have...
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Why are more women coming out later in life?
In recent years, more women—particularly in their 30s and 40s—are coming out as queer, catching the public’s attention and raising questions about timing, identity, and relationships. This shift is not...
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Wax play and massage candles 101: a beginner’s guide to LBDO Melt
If you’ve ever been curious about trying wax play or adding a massage candle to your intimate moments, you’re not alone. It’s an experience that heightens the senses and brings...
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Dating with a herpes diagnosis
Herpes is one of the most common sexually transmitted infections (STIs), yet the shame, fear and stigma remains. Up to 80% of Australian adults carry HSV1 (oral herpes or cold...
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When cheating hurts: how to heal
Dealing with romantic betrayal can feel overwhelming, confusing and painful. It’s natural to feel a deep sense of loss, and to start questioning your judgement and self-worth. It’s a tough...
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Grief and libido: understanding the connection
Grief affects many parts of our lives, including sexual desire and intimacy. If you’re navigating this tough time, it’s completely normal to notice changes in your libido. Instead of holding...
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The science behind a crush
Ever heard of a meet-cute in movies? Well, a crush is like your brain’s version of a meet-cute—a chemical one. The neuroscience behind it is fascinating, involving a whirlwind of...
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A beginner’s guide to doms & subs
Curious about exploring BDSM or wondering if a dom/sub dynamic might be for you? Diving into these power dynamics can open up new layers of pleasure you didn’t even know...
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Scheduling sex: is it right for you?
You know how movies and books often show sex as this spontaneous, thrilling moment that usually ends with both partners having a mind-blowing orgasm? While that can definitely be part...
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Are you a pillow princess?
As many of the world’s greatest terms are, "Pillow Princess'' is a term coined by the queer community. Lesbian circles and queer women have been using the label for many...
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2 rooms, 1 couple: the unexpected benefits of sleeping apart
Living together but in separate rooms can still carry an unfair stigma of ‘impending breakup’ or ‘trouble in paradise’. This outdated notion couldn't be further from the truth. In fact,...
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Everything you need to know about going to sex therapy
So, you’re thinking about booking a session with a sex therapist but not sure what it’s all about, who to see and what to expect?
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5 things you didn’t know about the clitoris
Ah, the wonderful, mysterious clitoris. The vulva’s pleasure centre - a treasure that many explorers find impossible to find (it’s literally right there in plain sight). While we are starting...
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Bringing food into the bedroom
Moist, sensual, mouth-watering, orgasmic - we could just as easily be describing a decadent chocolate cake as a session in the bedroom. Food and sex are just about the two...
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3 spooky ghost(ing) stories
Nothing is scarier than a ghost. And we’re not talking about the floating white sheet that says ‘boo’. Ghosting is loosely defined as ‘abruptly ending communication with someone without explanation’,...
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The pleasures of piss play
Let's dive into the (quietly) popular world of urolagnia, also known as “piss play”, “watersports”, or “golden shower”, or simply: the inclination to derive sexual excitement from the idea of...
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Sex and antidepressants
Chances are, you’ve heard something about the relationship between sex and antidepressants. While it's true that certain medications for depression and anxiety can indeed impact your sexual desire, the story...
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What we didn't know about selling feet pics online
There’s a big market for selling pictures of your feet on the internet. When it comes to fetishes, feet are an absolute classic. In fact, over $5 million dollars a...
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Pillow Talk with Laura Miano
Our beautiful friend, Laura Miano (she/her), is one of Melbourne’s most prominent Sexologists, and the visionary behind Posmo, a sex toy concept store and pleasure project celebrating unique expressions of...
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5 reasons we love holiday sex
Why does sex reach such celestial heights on vacation? Could it be shedding the familiar skin of everyday life? The physical effect indulgence and opulence has on your body? The...
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The colour psychology of attraction
One often overlooked facet of intimacy and attraction may be its deep connection with colour. The association between colour and human attraction has garnered significant attention, even being backed by...
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Sexual soundscapes: using moaning, whimpering and breathing in the bedroom
Sex - unlike watching a movie in the cinema or studying at the library - isn't generally enhanced by ‘keeping it down’. In fact, a lot of people respond very...
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Break-up aftercare
A lot of us would rather swim with sharks than go through a bad break up, and for good reason. Categorically, break-ups suck. For both the dumper and dumpee, it's...
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Naughty nurse, deviant doctor, sensual surgeon: unpacking the doctor-nurse fantasy
From the sexy nurse outfit that inevitably makes an appearance every Halloween, to the magnetic appeal of (for some) McDreamy in Grey's Anatomy, medical professionals have effortlessly shifted from the...
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How to strike up a conversation on a dating app
Once upon a time, online dating carried a stigma, reserved for the desperate and lonely, with only a handful of websites to choose from. Now, there are over 366 million...
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Having the horn: historical origins of horny
In 1998, Hot ’n’ Juicy boldly proclaimed through song that they were “horny, horny, horny.” And of course, Austin Powers gave us his iconic, “Do I make you horny, baby?”...