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Life after The Kiss of Death: surviving a bilateral mastectomy in my 30s
Cancer is often seen as a monolithic experience - a singular battle with a clear beginning, middle, and end. But for those who live through it, the reality is much...

The politics of moaning
When we think about sex, sound often feels like a given - moans, gasps, sighs of pleasure. But how, when and why we make noise during sex is shaped by...

The meaning of a hickey
A hickey is more than just a bruise. It’s a mark that lingers - a visible trace of a private moment, left on the body for the world to see....

How TV intimacy coordinators are changing what desire looks like on screen
We’ve always looked to screens to show us what desire should look like - the heat, the tension, the unspoken pull between two characters. These moments don’t just entertain us,...

Why your libido changes over time
Desire isn’t linear. It fluctuates - quietens, intensifies, shifts - and often in response to what's going on in your life, your body and your relationships. And while it can...

How to talk to your partner about introducing a vibrator
Talking about sex can be vulnerable - even in relationships where communication is strong and intimacy feels easy. There are some topics that still make people pause, and one of...